Findet ihr dunkelhäutige Männer attraktiv bzw anziehend?
Hey:) mein Kollege (18/1,88/schlank) ist in letzter sehr deprimiert da es nie mit der große Liebe geklappt hat.er schiebt es immer wieder auf seine Hautfarbe (dunkelhäutig) und auf seine Nation (Sri Lanka/tamile).ich versuche ihn immer aufzubauen und mut zu machen aber es scheint nicht zu klappen.er ist kein dummer (Abiturient) und er ist auch sehr modebewusst.er will gerne eine deutsche Freundin da er deutsche Frauen attraktiver findet.Wie soll ich ihn am besten aufmuntern und wie findet ihr dunkelhäutige Männer (ehrliche Antworten bitte:))
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Es ist doch komplett egal welche Hautfarbe ein Mensch hat! Hauptsache er ist sympathisch! Und so wie du ihn beschreibst scheint er doch nett zu sein...
Ich mag alle Jungs wenn sie nett sind. (Egal welche Hautfarbe!!!)
Zeig ihm doch die Antworten. (Also die positiven. Damit er sieht das es genug gibt denen die Farbe egal ist!)
LG
Mir wäre die Hautfarbe total egal. Vielleicht merken Frauen, dass er an ihnen kein Interesse hätte, wenn SIE die "falsche" Hautfarbe hätten. Manchmal haben Frauen für so etwas eine feine Antenne. Vielleicht projeziert er sein"Problem" auch auf die Frauen. Da er keine dunkelhäutige Frau will, denkt er, dass Frauen ihn wegen seiner Hautfarbe eh nicht wollen.Auch das spüren Frauen manchmal.
Das kommt immer auf den Menschen drauf an! Da kann man nicht sagen, dass alle den und den schön finden. Zudem kommt ja Schönheit von innen. Bestes Beispiel: der Kühlschrank ;)
https://youtube.com/watch?v=_9akLFOE-r4
Hallo Leute...
I don't really know why me and the other girls are so attracted to black men, or how it has become a trend at german women.
I only can speak for myself, and i know the opinions and experiances from my friends and pales, i hang up with.
Surely it's about their dark skin, and mostly i like a black mens apearance. Sometimes it's the dark voice. It also could be the way he moves, his behavior, or how he smells...
Most of them are confident and a women gets all the attention she needs, and within there is also the sexual aspect.
Before you ask: If i can proof the big myth, you'll know what i mean, it's always a bonus. For now, it's all i have to say about this point.
Another reason for some german women may be the history, knowing about the persecution and the genocide by the nazis. But that's not me and i think it's not the mean reason.
In the last 70 years most German man and women have learned to be more tolerant and open minded. Remember the long period of occupation in germany. GIs were based in germany, many of them have married a german women and have a family.
That's why the german women learned about the Afro-American and African culture or even the sub-culture of both. Most german women already have some interrests in black men and his livestyle and culture. So german girls got a good basement to flirt with these guys.
What i mean is: In the end it's all about the feelings and desires we have. Feelings and desires we all know about, and which make us fall in love, or get attracted to a man or women.
People have preferences and desires, also in sexuality and relationships. It realy makes no difference if people are more attracted to white, black or any other ethnicy.
It's always a thing about prejudices, wishes or the desires we have. Our hopes and our desires are depending on the prejudices. But there are also some prejudices who are not so natural and helpful like the other ones. This will be the border to racism or other evil thoughts.
The best way to destroy any prejudices or a myth, is to know if it's real and to proof it. Me and other women have done this.
I've tried, to find some studies and informations about how many women are attracted to black guys. Also if women are married with black men, or want to have sex with them.
The problem: Not all of them are serious. In germany unfortunately, there seems to be no studies or surveys, including german women who are married or want to have sex with a black men.
The studies and surveys i've found, also the serious ones, are different in their results.
A study says 87% (!?) of all American women fantasize about having sex with a black guy. Similar studies about this question shows 51% and 42% of all white American women.
Studies in Europe released 54% and 63% of all european women are attracted to black men.
European studies exposing, it's deciding in which country the women spend her live.
As i have said before: I got no studies or survays, how german girls think about marriage or dating/have sex with a black male. Pertaining to my own experiences and the perceptions of my friends and my people, i will estimate the number of german women with “dark fantasies“ surely about 60%. Some of you might wonder about my estimate. Please remember, no one of us share all of his thoughts, opinions or desires with each other. If we would be honest all the time, we couldn't be in relationships or have friends. Sometimes we must hide our real feelings to maintain our relationships.
Long days and pleasent nights...
PS: Here some links you may like:
-m.rp-online.de/panorama/wissen/attraktiv-die-hautfarbe-entscheidet-aid-1.2596962
welt.de/wissenschaft/article1814733/Maenner-und-Frauen-und-die-Erotik-der-Hautfarbe.html
-streetinsider.com/dr/news.php?id=10919758
-dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-535828/Why-men-prefer-fair-skinned-maidens-women-like-dark-handsome-strangers.html
-topdocumentaryfilms.com/rent-a-rasta/
Also mal ehrlich, dass hat doch nichts damit zu tun. Ich finde sogar, dass dunkelhäutige sehr attraktiv sind. Er sollte nicht so leicht aufheben, denn die Hoffnung besteht immer.